Homecoming Queen

Source: Kuwaitup2date


The holiday season is a time of returning to the comfort, security & familiarity of home. Of being wrapped in the warm embrace of family & friends. However, for some homecoming is an unaffordable luxury.

 Every year several Indians shift abroad for work in search of a better life. Poverty & a limited skillset forces a majority to take up jobs as maids & labourers in Middle Eastern countries. While some of them have been at it since decades, others who have a hard time adjusting or are mistreated by sponsor families turn to Shaheen Sayyed.

A woman with kind eyes & a voice reflective of grit aptly describes Sayyed.  An NRI residing in Kuwait, she has been alleviating the plight of Indian maids & labourers for over 22 years.

Several such workers want to return home but have little or no guidance. Sayyed decided to put her education to good use & help them out. So much so that her family retorts, “Jab tak aap 2-4 logo ko help nahi karti tab tak aapka khana hazam nahi hota.’’ Your food does not get digested unless you help people daily.

Sayyed simplifies the recruitment process, “Maids are employed on contracts. To work abroad an Indian maid approaches an agent. Similarly, the sponsor family approaches the maid association. A majority of maids’ hail from Andhra Pradesh & Punjab.’’ During the initial months, maids go through a lot of learning & unlearning. They pick up basic phrases of the new language, unlearn their previous work ethic only to replace it with a new one. In Middle Eastern countries, maids work in massive homes in posh localities. Sayyed says, “Within six months most of the maids get accustomed to the new country.’’ For those that find it hard to adjust & want to return to India, Sayyed offers help.

The process of sending a maid home is risky & time-consuming. From reaching out to the embassy & constantly following up to ensuring they get shelter & food during this period to staying in touch with them till they reach India, Sayyed supports them through the entire process. She tries to strike a balance between the sponsor & maid to benefit both parties. Sayyed discourages maids from running away. “Once these maids are taken abroad on a Kadama visa they cannot switch their profession even if they are unhappy. If they do so & are caught they are at a risk of being deported to India,’’ she says.

To her each case is unique & memorable. After the Karafi case, she uses social media actively to garner support for these workers & help individuals reach out to her easily.

The Japanese believe that one of the secrets to a long & fulfilling life is to have an ikigai or purpose that drives people to get out of bed each morning, Shaheen Sayyed has found hers in helping those in need. By bringing them back home. She is truly their homecoming queen.

In pic: Shaheen Sayyed
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